Wild Valentine’s warm-up - Loneliness fuels women’s demand for male dancers

As Valentine's Day approaches, exotic male dancers are becoming unexpected emotional lifelines for women craving attention, excitement and connection.

But while the fantasy ends on stage, some patrons are increasingly trying to carry it far beyond the curtains.

According to a representative of Divine Men of Choice, the long-running male exotic dance group, loneliness--especially during the season of love--is driving many women straight into their shows, and sometimes into awkward territory.

"You have to keep in mind that a lot of women are lonely. Some of them don't have a partner of their own to go back home to. This is the reality in Jamaica and even worldwide," he said.

"When they come to the event, they get aroused, they're stimulated, and they just don't want to leave empty-handed."

That emotional hunger becomes most visible around Valentine's, one of the group's busiest periods in its 16-year history.

"Women want to feel special, and that is our expertise," the spokesperson said.

But while the demand is high, boundaries remain firm. Divine Men of Choice insists its production is not about quick thrills but a carefully curated experience.

"We are providing an event for ladies only with elite male exotic dancers," the spokesperson explained.

"It's a show that locks in for about four hours, and when the ladies come, they get a treat that they will not forget or regret. It's enticing, tasteful and very sexy--like a Jamaican Magic Mike in a sense."

Divine Men of Choice is gearing up for its pre-Valentine's show, Sensual Seduction, which promises an intoxicating night of fantasy and finesse when it heats up this Friday in St Andrew.

The show itself features about seven dancers, each with a dedicated set.

"It's gyration, scantily clothed, clothes coming off -- giving mesmerising mental stimulation without any physical penetration," he said.

"We're a fantasy that will never be a reality. We sell fantasy, and we ensure that you have the time of your life and you're mentally stimulated."

Despite those clear lines, Valentine's requests can get bold.

"After one Valentine show that was requested by a client, they wanted the dancers to stay back and have a happy ending," he revealed.

"They wanted our dancers to stay and spend some time."

Other requests are more direct.

"They'll say, 'Can this person come home with me? Can I get one of these guys to have a good time?' Our response is unfortunately you can't--but we understand what's happening."