My husband is being unfaithful

Dear Pastor,

I have been listening to you on the radio and reading your column in The STAR. I have a problem. I am a quiet person and I live a quiet life. I have three children with my husband, but he has three other children with three different women. I don't interfere with any of them, but one of them is always calling me and telling me to leave her man alone.

I complained to my husband and he warned her not to interfere with me anymore. But that did not stop her. One day, I was at home and she called me on my cell phone and told me that my husband had just come to visit her and was having a shower preparing himself for both of them to have sex. I told her two bad words and I hung up.

I called my husband's number, but he did not answer. About half an hour after, he called me. I started to curse him and he asked what was the matter. I told him that he was at the woman's yard and they were planning to have sex. He said that is foolishness and he would soon be home. I did not go to bed until he came home. I smelled all over his body and he did not smell as if he had a shower.

Pastor, he has women, but he is loving and he takes good care of me. Sometimes I tell him that I am going to leave him; then, he would come home early for a while and go back to his 'badness'. What can I do?

E.F.

Dear E.F.

Continue to be faithful to your husband. His outside women know that he is a good man and they are jealous of you. They would like to take him away from you. So, you should remain calm as much as possible. Continue to behave as a good wife. Don't get into any argument with any of these women. They want you to walk away from your husband so that they can take over.

You know that your husband loves women, so insist that when he is having sex with you, he uses the condom. I wish you well.

Pastor