Eyeing someone’s boyfriend

Dear Pastor,

This is my first time writing to you. There's a boy that I really like and want to be in a relationship with. But every time I see him, his girlfriend is around. I can't seem to tell him how I feel because I'm too shy. When I see him and his girlfriend, I get very jealous. I even daydream whenever I see him.

I am talking to another guy. Please, give me a good advice.

L.L.

Dear L.L.,

This young man that you like very much has a girlfriend, so I suggest that you leave him alone. He is not in terested in you. You are like a silent admirer, and it is not unusual for a girl to see a guy and like him, or for a guy to see a girl and like her. But they don't get involved. If you put yourself in the guy's way, both of you may become close, but then you will create problems for yourself and for the guy and his girlfriend. So, leave him alone.

You say that you have an other guy in your life. I suggest, therefore, that you stick with that guy.

Pastor